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Hi I'm Staci!


"Never forget that walking away from something unhealthy is BRAVE even if you stumble a little on your way out the door." - Mandy Hale

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Hi I'm Staci!


"Never forget that walking away from something unhealthy is BRAVE even if you stumble a little on your way out the door." - Mandy Hale


I work with women who have been living their life under this dark cloud called doubt, fear and procrastination but they feel the stir to find themselves and step out from under this cloud. This doubt, fear and procrastination could have been caused by rejection, domestic abuse, regret, mistakes, mindset blocks, or a combination of these. This cloud is heavy, this cloud prevents them from dreaming as big as they desire, and this cloud keeps them from taking chances that will improve their life. This cloud also keeps them stuck, this cloud keeps them feeling unworthy, incapable, unloved, and worn out. It leaves them unsure of all their wants, needs and struggles not to mention it leaves them feeling incapable of taking action and changing their lives.

Are ready to ditch doubt, release the fears of what "others" think about you, overcome procrastination + comparison disease, create bite size goals + take action on them, and begin stepping into your truth and living out your God-given purpose? 

Once I really took a look at my life and asked myself what my needs, wants and struggles were, what had been holding me back and why had I not significantly made progress in my life I came to an eye opening realization. I realized it was because I had been living with huge amounts of doubt and fear. Not to mention I lacked confidence, clarity, and faith in action throughout my life because I failed to rely on God.

I had always allowed other people's ideas and values to guide me. I was hands down a follower of the world and admitting that is difficult. It's not about how hard something is it's about being honest. And I honestly lived my life with my head down, tail between my legs, and legs quivering.

This meant I wasn't able to live my god-given purpose!

 


  • Being unable to create boundaries in my life due to the fear of rejection, embarrassment, and standing out as different.
  • My emotional needs were never getting met. This was because I cycled through unhealthy, abusive, or toxic relationships that left me more depleted each time.
  • I gravitated towards almost any compliment or pass a guy made at me.
  • Spiritually part of me had died as I was running from God to live life on my own terms.
  • My mindset was a complete wreck. My thought patterns consisted of negativity, worry, stress and fear. My inner critic was having the time of her life up there.
  • I almost always saw the glass as half empty.
  • Imposter Syndrome was something I deeply struggled with regardless of what it was I was doing.
  • I had a huge lack of focus which lead to extended periods of procrastination.
  • Not stepping out of my comfort zone because I let fear and worry run my life.

Will I ever feel confident? Will I ever be bold, brave, and fierce like the women I would watch in the movies? Will I ever get the nerve to create boundaries so that I can spare myself the guilt and shame associated with bad decisions? Will I ever stand up for myself even if I'm the only one standing? Will I ever feel like dreaming isn't a waste of time? Will I ever be able to just start? Will I ever get over comparison disease? Will I ever desire to develop a close relationship with God? Will I ever stop worrying myself about what "others" are thinking about me?

I'm here to show you how you can be confident, bold, brave, fierce, and a big dreamer who creates her own reality! I'm here to support you any way that I can. Together we can uncover your wants, needs and struggles so that we can then move to taking action and changing your life. It's my mission to let you know that without a doubt you can be all that you want to be regardless of how cliche that sounds! I'm here to share my own personal experiences so that you can see just how much is possible for yourself!


Are you currently feeling unworthy, undeserving, unloved, defeated, frustrated, talent-less or limited? If so, I totally get it. I've been there and have several t-shirts to prove it! I want to share a little bit about me and some of the things I've been able to overcome in hopes that you'll be empowered, encouraged, inspired, and hopeful for what's possible for your life!

I remember the end being in sight. I remember having a mixture of emotions I was excited, proud, and shocked. I was about to graduate with my bachelors of science in psychology. This was something I had worked towards for more years than I'd like to count. I was almost done! I was looking forward to no more late nights, early mornings, long research papers, cramming for exams, or presentations combined with all my other responsibilities around being a wife, mom, and employee. Then there were the feelings of anxiety, confusion, fear, frustration, doubt, and worry. What was I going to do with my life after graduation? I had no grand plan, no job interviews lined up, no possible employers calling, no real focus or direction. This totally had me freaking out on the inside!


Like I mentioned above I still wasn't sure what I was going to do with my life after graduation. My husband had remained supportive throughout my college journey never putting lots of pressure on me. But I wanted to have a successful career that allowed me to financially provide for my family all while helping others in need. But what experience did I have? Throughout my college journey I worked in the restaurant industry and I didn't see how that experience would benefit me in any area of my life. I felt like I was a college graduate who had learned absolutely nothing and to boot I had no real work experience, what a waste I would think too myself. I had met numerous people in the restaurant industry over the course of years who seemed to have given up on their dreams and just settled. I knew I didn't want to be that person. But I honestly wasn't convinced I would end up any different there for awhile.

Even though I'd been going to college (for years and years and years) I still had no plan, no definite idea of where I wanted to work, or even the specific type of work I wanted to do. I could give a list a mile long of all the things I didn't want to do or be but couldn't be 100% sure about anything I did want to do.

Actually that's not true. I was 100% sure that I wanted to help other people. I wanted to make my career about that, helping others. The problem was I wasn't sure what form that was going to take on. Everywhere I looked there seemed to be someone or some group that definitely needed help. I couldn't focus on anything in particular. I would go back and forth wanting to help everyone. I'm embarrassed to admit this but it ultimately left me helping no one.

A sort of mentor I had at the time had given me the advice to embrace the time I had between graduating college and finding the career of my dreams. She reassured me that the job of my dreams with a flexible schedule and hours did exist. This gave me hope and was just what I needed to hear at the time. At that point in my life I needed someone to let me know that what I was looking for did exist and I could have it. You know what? It wasn't long after that when I came across the world of coaching. I had finally found what it was that I was suppose to do with my life, I found my life's purpose! I was so excited I remember telling my husband and him being happy that I had finally gained clarity for myself! 

I didn't waste much time between finding out coaching was my life's purpose before hiring my first ever business coach. Seriously, this was one of the biggest and best decisions of my life! After having invested in my college education and feeling like I didn't take much away I was a bit hesitant to invest such a large sum into a business coach. I was concerned that I would spend all this money and at the end of the four months I'd be exactly the same as when I started. Even after having a clarity call with my coach I was still hesitant because I had never considered having a coach before this point in my life. But I knew I wouldn't do it on my own, I knew I had zero idea what I was doing, I knew I had zero business experience, and I needed someone to guide me. So I took the leap and enrolled! What once seemed like such a big and scary decision has since been the driving force behind you reading this right now.

You might be trying to figure out your next move only to find yourself with lots of limiting beliefs and blocks instead of direction and motivation. You may just have some crazy wild idea that you're not sure what to do with or you feel the stir to make changes in some area of your life only you have no idea where to start (and you need the accountability + an experienced cheerleader).I'm here to tell you that you will find your way, your purpose, and achieve the confidence in yourself that you so desire. I believe in you! If it's possible for me it is most definitely possible for you. Changing the way in which you think will open you up to a whole new world with limitless possibilities the way God intended. 

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When you are brave enough to be yourself you give others permission to do the same.


And we know that all things work together for good to those who are called according to HIS purpose. 

-Romans 8:28

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When you are brave enough to be yourself you give others permission to do the same.


And we know that all things work together for good to those who are called according to HIS purpose. 

-Romans 8:28


Ever heard someone say that? Looking back over my life I can recall specific situations where I was so upset, distraught, sad, confused, and hurt but after that my life changed for the better. I wasn't able to see it right away because I had been looking out of foggy glasses for such a long time. 

I started out a young adult without a clue. I wanted freedom so badly, to be out on my own doing whatever it was that I wanted to do. However, I didn't truly know what to do with all that freedom once I got it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no big dreams to follow. Due to my lack of dreams and being extremely shy I was always more of a follower than a leader. I fell into the crowd who was more interested in going out, drinking, making questionable decisions, and engaging in risky (even dangerous) behavior. At that time I didn't look at it like this and I'm sure they didn't either. Instead we looked at it as "having fun." Prior to getting out on my own I had not been able to "have fun" without answering to anyone and I thought that's what freedom was all about. Let's just say my definition of freedom has completely changed since then (thank God)!

While in the midsts of my freedom I met a boy. I was a fresh 19 years old, naive, wanting to be loved, respected, and appreciated. Now at that time I didn't think I was naive, clueless, or unaware of the signs of a man that I wasn't the best fit for me due to all my insecurities. Meeting this man was the start to a part of my life I would have never imagined and one I'll never forget. It was long, rocky, crazy, scary, and sometimes a fun ride, but I was completely blind to this at the time. I'll just say our relationship turned quite unhealthy, I was not respected, appreciated, or truly loved the way I deeply desired to be. I honestly don't think he knew how to treat me in those ways. He said one thing but his actions didn't match up. He still had some growing to do and some work to do on himself. There's a good chance our relationship lasted much longer than it probably ever should, but everything happens for a reason, right?! 

Now I should mention that prior to this I had developed a cycle of unhealthy relationships, they didn't all look the same, but they all ended. They all left me feeling used, worthless, not good enough, sad, unappreciated, and disrespected. I had never experienced true dating, courting, or any of those things. My parents divorced when I was very young and my mom never remarried or dated so in my home I did not see my mom being courted. I'm not saying this to blame anyone as I am responsible for the things I've done in my life.


Fast forward years and years I was now a single mom, working as a server, going to college, and finding myself in a cycle of unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships. I was going to a job that didn't light me up, because I didn't feel I was truly making my mark on the world. I was finding that the atmosphere in that industry was draining my soul. Not to mention the schedule was not what my dream schedule looked like. The money was in the night shifts and weekends which meant I wasn't getting to tuck my baby girl into bed at night, instead the lady at the daycare was (yes, my baby had to be at daycare during the night, it was not ideal). This was quite hard for me to deal with. This way of life wasn't helping me get anywhere, it wasn't bringing me joy, hope, or encouragement.

Honestly, you could sum up my life in one word...settling! Or as some like to call it i was playing scared and small in every area of my life. I had made a habit of it.

I would often think about how I would feel when people would ask my daughter what her mommy did and she would tell them I was a server at a restaurant.

It didn't feel good, it made me feel unaccomplished, unworthy, embarrassed, and simply not good enough. That's not who I wanted to be or the job title I wanted to have. I wanted to be proud of what I did and I wanted her to be proud as well. I wanted to be doing something with my life that truly made a difference in the lives of others.

Is that how you feel too? Like your settling in your life in one or all areas over and over again? Your finances, your career,/job, your health, your relationships, your lifestyle and your education aren't where they could be? I totally understand, like you have no idea how much I get it. Well maybe you do if you've made it this far.

By the way, thanks for hanging in here with me.

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Your greatest self has been waiting your whole life. don't make it wait any longer! - Steve Maraboli


For I know the plans I have for you. Declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.

-Jeremiah 29:11

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Your greatest self has been waiting your whole life. don't make it wait any longer! - Steve Maraboli


For I know the plans I have for you. Declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.

-Jeremiah 29:11

I feel like I should let you in on something i kept a secret for decades.

I was once a small town girl settling for an unhealthy dysfunctional relationship without a plan, a purpose, a dream, or a future. What I had instead was an abundance of self-doubt, fear of what "others" would or did think about me, procrastination and a lack of focus due to extreme levels of stress. All of these things left me empty on the inside. I was practically frozen in life, I had no idea what I was doing or why I was doing it, I didn't know myself, and I let others seemingly treat me like their puppet. I've lived long enough to at least know that I am not the only one in the world who's been in that place or one similar to it. If I had to take a guess I'd say you can relate since you are here reading this right now. :)

Allow me to paint a clearer picture for you. There was a time when I wouldn't raise my hand in class to ask a question because, the fear of looking stupid, sounding silly, or being rejected was so strong. There were times when I went the entire semester without reaching out to others in my class to study with because I was just too scared to reach out or approach anyone. I held my tongue about my personal opinion on specific topics out of fear. The fear of the possible backlash I would receive due to my opinion, the fear of being rejected due to that opinion,or the fear of not being educated enough on the topic. There were times in my life when I didn't create boundaries for myself or others. I didn't create boundaries because I was worried that my friends and acquaintances would think that I thought I was better than them. Or that once again I would be looked at as being ridiculous and I would be rejected. When people would say things that made me extremely uncomfortable I'd just nod and keep going with the conversation out of fear of rejection or some sort of confrontation. The truth is if either of those things would have happened it would have been amazing! I wouldn't have carried around shame, guilt, and embarrassment behind many of the things I allowed to happen in my life. Creating boundaries protects us, it let's people know our values, our opinions, and where they stand.

In order to create boundaries it really helps to know who you are deep down and what you truly desire. Once you know those two things you can begin to put together your life. That is the exciting part and the best news about that is it's NEVER too late to begin! Actually that's what I'm here to help you with. By working together you will learn how to ditch self-doubt, release the fear of what "others" will think, cure your comparison disease, and begin stepping into your truth. Which means you'll be living your life to the fullest and be the happiest you've ever been (go ahead and start doing your happy dance now)!

beautiful girl you were made to do amazing things so believe in yourself!


We possess the strength and ability to accomplish ALL OUR goals and dreams!

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beautiful girl you were made to do amazing things so believe in yourself!


We possess the strength and ability to accomplish ALL OUR goals and dreams!

My daughter and I shining through our imperfections. She intentionally put on separte lipsticks while I intentionally only applied half of one. Life is too short to be anyone other than yourself, we all have imperfections, I dare you to show up regardless. The world needs YOU!

My daughter and I shining through our imperfections. She intentionally put on separte lipsticks while I intentionally only applied half of one. Life is too short to be anyone other than yourself, we all have imperfections, I dare you to show up regardless. The world needs YOU!

I was able to turn my life around by working on numerous areas some of those included: my mindset, surrounding myself with positive goal oriented people, taking big leaps of faith, taking action and dreaming big. Most importantly by knowing and believing that God had plans to prosper me. I have reaped big rewards do to all of these things. 

I graduated with my B.S with honors, left an unhealthy relationship (toxic/abusive) of over five years, moved to another state with my four month old daughter who was born significantly premature. I also married an amazing man who far exceeded my expectations, and started my own business that I love because, it changes the lives of others in a big way just to name a few things. 

I stepped into my truth. Once I did that I became confident not so much in myself but in God's ability to use me. I dream bigger by the week and stand in my power as the woman I was called to be. I mean I've even been interviewed on ABC news which is something I would have never considered possible for me just 6 months ago. 

If all of this is possible for me, a southern girl who grew up in a town with a population below 500 (where I don't remember seeing any big dreamers) a girl without a plan, a dream, or a pound of confidence then it's definitely possible for you. I'm here to help you break down big scary goals and task, to create personalized action steps, to begin believing you are without a doubt created for greatness, to see yourself as God see's you, and to be a light to the world.

If you are feeling like you don't know where to start or that you need someone to guide you along the way, no worries I've got your back. After all it's what I have been called to do. Helping others transform their lives by ditching their doubt and leaning into their God-given purpose is one of the best feelings in the world. If you want to have that (and I know you do) then let's talk about working together.

 

"People travel to wonder at the height of the mountains, at the huge waves of the seas, at the long course of the rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motion of the stars, and yet they pass by themselves without wondering." 
-St. Augustine

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BYE BYE COMFORT ZONE! HELLO to the life of your dreams!


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BYE BYE COMFORT ZONE! HELLO to the life of your dreams!


  • Speak up about a topic because you have done the work to know who you are & where you stand
  • Walk into any room with your head held high because you know you have a lot to offer
  • Make decisions without the thought or care of what "others" will think
  • No longer suffer from "comparison disease"
  • Have satisfying and lasting happiness
  • Try new things because your aware that doing so allows you to grow & expand beyond what you can imagine
  • Reach your dreams and create even bigger ones because you now know it's totally possible 
  • No longer settle in your relationships because your clear on who you are and all that you deserve
  • Attract positive and supporting relationships 
  • Replace self-doubt with self-confidence
  • Focus and therefore take action instead of procrastinating 
  • Submit your resume for that position you desire because you know your capable and qualified
  • Look in the mirror and be happy with what you see looking back at you
  • When your asked what your strengths are you can quickly identify several and be proud of them
  • Use your previous struggles as fuel to achieve the desires of your heart
  • Be the type of girl who see's the glass as half full
  • Know & believe who you are in God

I already know what you're thinking. This would be beyond a-mazing, life changing actually. Well sister, get ready because ALL of these things are possible for you and that's just some of what you can expect from working with me. I know these types of transformations are possible because I've witnessed them first hand in my own life and in the lives of my clients. I'm confident that I will get you achieving your goals, seeing your worth, and feeling confident that God is working in your weakness! Working with women like you to ditch doubt, step into your truth and discover your God-given purpose is such an amazing and rewarding experience. I would love nothing more than being on that journey with you so click below to find out more details.